“Each age has its own peculiar temptations! Young fellows are tempted by girls, men who
are thirty years old are tempted by gold, when they are forty years old they
are tempted by honour and glory, and those who are sixty years old say to
themselves, ‘What a pious man I have become!’” (LW 54 #1601)
This is a quote of Luther’s from the end of May
1532. Notice here Luther says nothing
about those who are fifty years old — humorous since Luther was just shy of
turning fifty at the time. One wonders
what was tempting him at the age of fifty!
Perhaps not telling the whole story!
Or Wittenberg Bitter!
Nevertheless, he makes a good point. There is something that tempts everyone, the
young and the old, male or female, well off and the not so well off!
What temps you?
We all have our weaknesses. As
Christians we are forgiven, we are being healed, but still the sore of sin
oozes and festers. When we think sin is
under control it soon breaks out again in another way.
When I was a young man this Corinthians text troubled
me deeply. Perhaps it still should raise
concerns in me today! Growing up as a
Christian in a post-Christian culture, sex was everywhere. It was in the media, in music and their
videos, on television, in ads... you couldn’t get away from it. Unfortunately, I failed to flee from it
too. I failed in thought, word, and
deed!
You see temptation is a sneaky thing. It comes about and succeeds because human
nature always seeks to find fulfilment in the wrong thing. I thought if I could deliver myself from this
sin, I would be a better person. And
when I couldn’t I thought I was not good enough for God! But I also knew giving in to the lure of
licentiousness and lust would also be disastrous and deadly. It seemed I was
trapped.
As I grew older I soon realised the same sin raised
its head again, not through girls, but through gold, and then glory. I see today I fall into the same trap
thinking I am over sexual sins, because there is a foundational sin behind
sexual sin, working me to want wealth, and harassing me to hunger for honour.
My sin is no better, if I begin to believe, I’ve
conquered sin on my own and moved on from the days of my hot blooded youth, or
the go-get-em working days for wealth and the weekend.
Yes! This text should still concern me today! Not because of sins of the past! No! They have been nailed to the cross and
forgiven! But rather, because of the
sins of the present! And no, not the
sexual sins of today’s youth, but my sin, my temptation, and my failures before
God today!
I am throwing stones in glass houses if I think this
text is just about someone else’s sexual sin rather than the cause of it, and
the true cause of all the various age specific sins.
You see there is just as much thought around that sex
is bad. This is just as big a sin as sexual promiscuity and perhaps partly the
cause of it in our society today.
Yet we hear right at the beginning of creation, after
the fall, a recount of the conception and birth of Adam and Eve’s first
son. In Genesis four we hear, “Now Adam knew Eve his wife, and she
conceived and bore Cain, saying, “I have gotten a man with the help of the Lord.”
(Genesis 4:1 ESV)
Therefore it’s good to know your husband or wife
sexually. For sure it’s private, but God
is glorified in right sexual conduct.
And may I say, right sexual conduct between a husband and a wife, in the
sight of God, with his blessing, is the most joyful, satisfying, exciting sex
there is to be had. Contrary to popular
thought that fulfilment comes through what one might do with their own bodies.
And here is where we begin to uncover the cause of
sexual sin and why Paul calls us and the Corinthians to flee from sexual
immorality. When we think of ourselves
and our own sexual temptations, they occurred most likely when we were
younger. Teenagers of every generation have been the same. Pimples and body odour occur because of
what’s happening in the body; it is sexually developing. Stopping sexual development in the
body is about as futile as stopping pimples
and BO!
But learning what is happening in us while we develop
as teens and young adults is crucial for fleeing from immorality when we’re
young; as is fleeing from greed or self-glorification when we’re old. In fact, many struggle just as much with their
senior’s sin, because the sins of their youth haven’t been dealt with
appropriately. Rather than flee from the
sins of youth, sexuality was suppressed and secretive.
But why and how does one flee from the sins of
sexuality? Not only are we developing
physically when we are teens, but also socially, emotionally and mentally. It’s at this age when the ego really begins
to kick against authority. Mum and dad
no longer know anything, it becomes about personal experience and
excitement. Teenagers believe they
should be bullet proof; they should know, and have everything!
Unfortunately we’re all taught to believe we must do
stuff to find fulfilment. For a teenager
sexual gratification is number one for fulfilment. Whether they do it or not is beside the
point, it’s the belief of what fulfils the ego that drives the temptation. And it’s the thought process and belief of
what one must do to find fulfilment that sets up a person’s life for
temptation, failure, and seeking things that never fulfil anything.
The first thing we must ask ourselves, “What is the
purpose of a person? What is my
purpose?” What will give the sum total
of my being fulfilment; physically, emotionally, spiritually, mentally? Without this sorted out one will roll from various
sexual sins, into greed for acquiring stuff, or seeking satisfaction in status,
family, fortune, or fame. All falling
short of the very thing we seek in these things; namely, fulfilment.
“What is my purpose?” may be the first thing we need
to ask ourselves. But knowing what our purpose is takes a life time to really
get. Nor do we fully get it until we’re
raised to eternal rest with our Father in Heaven.
We need to see in this text that fleeing from sexual
immorality, is the need to flee from the self, the ego, the need to self
appease that takes our focus from God and glorifies myself. The rights of “I” need to be shifted from
idolatry back to the righteousness of the great I AM!
Augustine of Hippo, a father in the church, back in
the fourth and fifth century in his writing, The Confessions, said,
“Great are you, O Lord, and exceedingly worthy
of praise; your power is immense, and your wisdom beyond reckoning. And so we,
who are a due part of your creation, long to praise you – we also carry our
mortality about with us, carry the evidence of our sin and with it the proof
that you thwart the proud. You arouse us so that praising you may bring us joy,
because you have made us and drawn us to yourself, and our heart is restless
until it rests in you”
Augustine was no stranger to the ways of the world. He was raised a Christian but strayed for
some years, in search of pleasure. Also
in his confessions he said of his youth,
“But I, wretched, most wretched, in the very
commencement of my early youth, had begged chastity of the Lord, and said, 'Grant
me chastity and continence (self-control),
only not yet.”
So Augustine
like so many of us are restless. Looking
for fulfilment in all the wrong things.
But bitter experience taught Augustine, Luther, and many others who have
gone before us that allowing sexuality, status, wealth, reason and pride to
enslave us will only leave us yearning for something more, unfulfilled and
unable to raise us up on the last day.
Saint Paul says, “All
things are lawful for me but I will not be enslaved by anything!” (1 Cor
6:12) In other words he’s saying he has
freedom to do whatever he pleases but in exercising his freedom he must be
careful not to become overpowered by the very acts of his freedom.
He continues,
“Food is meant for the stomach and the stomach for food”—and God will destroy
both one and the other. The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for
the Lord, and the Lord for the body. And
God raised the Lord and will also raise us up by his power. Do you not know that your bodies are members
of Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ and make them members of a
prostitute? Never! Or do you not know
that he who is joined to a prostitute becomes one body with her? For, as it is
written, “The two will become one flesh.”
But he who is joined to the Lord becomes one spirit with him. Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin
a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins
against his own body. (1 Corinthians 6:13–18
ESV)
Humanity was made to glorify God, to praise God, to
be empowered by God. Until we rest in
God’s power, trusting in him, we have no rest.
There are many things we can prostitute ourselves to
in the name of bringing fulfilment to ourselves. These are idols and they have no power. God has power, it is the power of his love,
in Jesus Christ crucified and raised, so he might raise us up daily to glorify
him and eternally where we will be glorified with him forever.
Your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you,
whom you have from God! You are not your own.
You were bought with a price. We were created to glorify God in our bodies.
How do you do this?
Trust not yourself but the power of the Holy Spirit who continually
works to place you under the forgiveness of our risen Lord Jesus Christ and
into the loving presence of your Heavenly Father.
The kingdom the power and the glory are his. Amen.